Be the Standard Setter

Originally post on the Whatever Girls and dedicated to my husband, an amazing husband and father.

10294226_10203169849075500_7767579091901015690_nWe expect high standards. We look at the safety standards of cars, the standard of education offered by universities, and the standard of customer service a business offers. Even the standard of preschool education is important to many parents.

If the “standard” of a product or service is so important, then shouldn’t our standards be important when it comes to our daughters? Dads, I am talking to you. You play a key role in helping your daughter set the standard about what kind of man she will choose to be her husband.

1011315_10201087772263926_1690466469_nYour daughter watches how you treat her mom, stepmom, and other women in your life. The words you use to speak to your daughter are either going to build up her self-worth or tear it down. There is a YouTube video of a little girl and her father talking about her being a princess and what she deserves some day when she becomes a queen. Her daddy talks to her about how a man is to respect her and open doors for her. I believe that all dads need to talk to their daughters like that.

1011960_10201208008229750_1728592987_nMy husband has been very open with our daughter about what she should expect in a man and he has been very open with any young man who has come around looking to date her. He has set very high standards by how he treats me and in how he talks to our daughter. She knows that she is worthy of more than being some guy’s “friend with benefits”, that pornography is never something she needs to settle for, and that the words, “if you love me you would…” or “if you were a good girlfriend you would…”are completely unacceptable.   Those are just some of the standards that my husband has set in place for our daughter.

Dads, you can’t just be worried about the safety standards of the car you send your daughter out in or the standard of education a potential university offers. Letting her date without setting standards is extremely dangerous. You need to be the standard setter for your daughter. You need to set the bar high because there will be a day when she steps out on her own. Her future is in your hands so set the standards high.11350301_10206319654897722_1670066942_n

Happy Father’s Day to all you Dad’s that are setting high standards for you daughters.

Dad’s check out the Whatever Girls for more posts like this.  Your daughters are counting on you.

 

 

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